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Saturday, 23 December 2017

Do Young Millennial Men Today Realise That They Have To Mistreat Young Millennial Women In Order To Attract Them?

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Hey Guys, here's an open question that's on my mind. Anybody can answer it. With this, it's based on something that is, arguably, a common topic when it comes to dating and relationships, if not a very common topic, especially and more in particular with the youth, teenagers and children, to the point of where in which some people could label it as being an insignificant, pointless, meaningless and immature to talk about and think that it doesn't apply to them that much, but I just want to bring it up and look at it in a serious light, because I personally feel as if it needs to be addressed in this format, especially and more in particular if it's the case of where in which some people see this as being a growing epidemic in the dating and relationship world. From the perspective of men, this is based on something that seems as if some, if not a lot of us, more in particular with the young millennial men or the young men of the millennial generation, even though some men of the elder generation as well, have claimed to have realised about some, if not a lot of women in today's current society in order to attract them and become successful with them. For some of the men in the group, you can probably relate to this, testify to this yourselves and probably agree with this, so if you do agree with this and have actually experienced this, please share if you want to. However, for the women in group, even though some of you might agree with this, if you disagree with this and feel offended by this, please forgive me for this, but this is coming from what I personally and some other men have claimed that they noticed. This is mainly for the men, but the women in the group can put their own perspective on this if they want to. Without further ado, the question is this:

When it comes to the terms of dating and relationships in today's society and today's generation, do you honestly think that some of us men, more in particular with young men of the millennial generation, feel as if we have to disrespect women and treat women badly in order to attract them and become successful with them, more rather than treating them with dignity, reverence and respect, in which is how a lot of them should be naturally and expectedly ought to be treated, or as much as people or they themselves tell us that that's how they want to be treated?

Or in other words, in today's society, do you feel as if a certain majority of women, young millennial women this case, like and are attracted to men who disrespect them, walk all over them or treat them diabolically?

Or if not, do you think we're starting to see a rise and growing epidemic of that in the millennial generation today?

The reason of why I'm asking this is because when talking to some of my male friends, or hearing some men talk about this, from my personal observations, some if not a lot of them said that coming from their personal experiences with women in the past, whether it be on the terms of dating or relationships, that is what they realise about some if not a lot of them today. That comes in the form of where in which they started off by doing the right thing, or what they originally and initially thought was the right thing by treating women with decency, reverence, kindness and respect, but yet they wouldn't necessarily be receptive and react in the way that they would like, want and expect them to react, meaning that some, if not a lot of the women that they would try and go for, wouldn't take them serious on the terms of giving them the time of day by paying attention to them, give them a chance by dating them, or giving them a chance to see if they're fit and compatible for them to be in a relationship.

However, a little while after being completely unsuccessful with that, they analysed and carefully observed the same women that they were trying to pursue and realised a common pattern of where in which, with a lot of the other men that the women that they treated with decency were going for, giving attention to and seem to be attracted to, they were treating them the complete opposite of the way they were originally doing beforehand, with that coming in the form of where in which they were disrespecting them, walking all over them, abusing them, talking to them like garbage, undervaluing, unappreciated them and just treating them anyway how. Once they were told by other men that that was the secret to pulling in and attracting women, or once they themselves realised that they had to conform to that and do that in order to do attract women, they did it, in which some of them admitted that deep down they didn't want to do it and consciously knew that it was wrong what they were doing, however as a result, they were able to attract a lot of women because of it.

So do you think that that's a bit of a current problem with dating and relationships today, if not a major problem? Please be honest.
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Saturday, 25 November 2017

Why Are Some Men Afraid Of Commitment?

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In this article and write-up, I'm going to be discussing, talking about and explaining the reasons of why in which some men are afraid of commitment when it comes to civil partnerships, in essence relationships and marriages, with this being something that some, if not a lot of women tend to either always question lot of the time, be concerned about when it comes to seeking out for companionships with men, or if not even be a bit frustrated, irritated, complain and moan about in that regard while they are looking for serious and devoted of forms of relationships and marriages. This is something that some, if not a lot of women have also always wanted to know the answer to, and hear us men explain ourselves for it, so this is just my personal theory on it that I'm going to break down and explain.

Now, before I get into it, as a lot of people should know, I just want to say that it's not just men out there that are afraid of commitment, meaning that you have women out there that are afraid of commitment as well, however, to speak for the men, due to the fact that I am one and due to it being a little bit more of a common feeling and intuition within the male community to feel this way, especially and more in particular with the men of today's generation that are going through a growing epidemic of where in which a majority of them don't want to get married, feel apathetic towards marriage, are now trying to avoid it, as well as dating and long-term relationships, of in which I have talked about before, or are now starting to realize, from their point of view, that they don't have to desire a relationship or marriage.

Firstly, to start off, on the terms of why in which some men are afraid of being committed to a woman, for the sake of not trying to come across as if I'm generalising and as if I'm trying putt all men in one category due to the fact that it's not all men who are afraid of commitment, but with the ones that are afraid of commitment and try to avoid it, with a lot of them, they realize that it takes time, responsibility, with that arguably being the biggest thing that they fear, effort, stress, sacrifice & compromise being in a committed relationship with a woman and being devoted to a woman. That is something that they've more likely never been trained for and never been taught how to do when it comes to relationships and marriages, so due to that, whenever they hear the term "commitment" come from the mouth of a woman, they fear it instantly and immediately and associate it with something bad and something to be cautious about.

To go further down the line, with a lot of them, on the terms of their childhood, they either grew up in a home with no father-figure to look up to for that relationship and marriage preparation, or they did but the father didn't teach them any relationship or marriage morals and values, especially with one of them being commitment, or taught them the wrong things. So what happens is that when they grow up, when they are at an age of where in which you would expect them to want and find a relationship or marriage, and a woman approaches them and talks about how she wants a serious, devoted & committed relationship, they get scared of that because they know that they were never taught how to do that or be that, and if they do enter a relationship or marriage with the expectation from the woman to be committed, they know they're not good enough for that or can never be that, so as a result, they panic and run.

Another reason of why in which some men are afraid of commitment, even though with this being something that is a lot of times more common with women when it comes to relationships, people tend to forget that it applies to men also as well, is due to the fact that some of them let other men, whether it be friends, colleagues or older male role models who have had bad experiences in relationships and marriages influence them to become reluctant to a relationship or marriage.

Another reason of why in which some men are afraid of commitment is due to the fact that some of them witness how relationships and marriages have destroyed and messed up the lives of some other men, especially and more in particular with men that they personally know, and then from there, they let it change their perception and view of relationships and marriages, so as a result they become afraid of it, due to thinking that if they're not careful, it could be them in the mutual situation.

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Wednesday, 22 November 2017

Is A Woman Actually Useful To The Life Of An Independent & Sucessful Businessman & Entreprenuer?

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When it comes to the terms of men in business and entrepreneurship and linking it in with civil partnerships such as relationships and marriages, before I, as well as other men and other people in general probably and more likely, used to think that once a man enters the role of entrepreneurship, builds up a business and becomes very successful with it, or once he's en-routed to it, he should take time to find a woman who's relationship and marriage material that's going to help, aid and support him in his business and entrepreneurship. 

However, now that I think of it, if it's the case of where in which he built up the business successfully and properly on his own, with that meaning that he's independent, he doesn't have to enter a relationship or get married, based on the fact that, in my personal opinion, a woman won't be useful, essential and important due to him showing and revealing the fact he's actively and comfortably running the business on his own without any spousal support, spousal interference or spousal intervention. As a matter of fact, if it's the case of where in which he's not wise and careful when it comes to the world of dating, relationship and marriage world, it's better for him to not jump into a civil partnership, because it could destroy him and potentially his business if it stems into it. 

In basic words, a businessman and male entrepreneur doesn't have to share his success with a women and use his success to take care of a woman through the form of a relationship or marriage based off of the fact that that is what society tells a man, or anybody in that position to do, or because that's what society or women expect him to do. I'm not trying to imply that a man who is doing that is selfish, self-centred and self-absorbed, nor am I trying to imply that a man who does that is devaluing the presence of a woman in his life. I'm also not trying to come across as if I myself am trying to devalue, undermine, disregard or even disrespect women, due to the fact that is what some people, women especially and more in particular would perceive and judge men in that situation, with that intuition or judge me as doing while reading this, because their not and I'm not, however, it's just the simple fact that they don't have to seek romantic companionship if it's not their hearts desires to. However, you also have to take into consideration of the fact that some, if not a lot or if not majority of women who approach those type of men or men in those positions only want to reap the benefits of his success only, so in some cases it better for him to be single and protect himself from that.
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