When it comes to the terms of interracial dating, interracial relationships and interracial marriages, more in particular between black people and white people, when it comes to the causes or reasons for dating outside of your race or causes for having a preference for or finding other races of men or women attractive more than your own or as well as your own, knowing that it's a topic that some people agree while yet some people don't, if you were to put it or paraphrase it as a question it would be very broad to ask based of the fact that every person who dates or has a preference men or women outside of their race is different.
For example, let's first start with the white woman and her attraction or preference for the black man. With white women who have a preference, like or date black men that's a very broad question on the terms of the fact that every white woman who likes black men is different. Even though yes, you will get some of them who only like black men for the stereotypical reasons or the reasons that we expect them to with that being for sexual pleasure, sexual motive, sexual intent, sexual fantasy, sexual fetish or sexual gratification of black men, other than that, you'll get some of them who like black men for a bunch of different reasons.
One reason is that you will get some of them who like black men on the terms of the masculinity they see in them, not just on the terms of physical appearance with that being the build and muscular shape or physique that a lot of us black men have they expect us to have, even though that is inclusive and applicable to men in general, regardless of race, but more so on the terms of our demeanour, how we act in certain situations and carry ourselves. Another is reason is that you'll get some of them who like us for how confident we are in ourselves. Another reason comes in the form where in which you'll get some of them who like us for how secure they feel when are around us, based on the fact that, from their personal experience with some of them saying this from their won mouths in testimonial form or story form, feel more secure and protected they feel when they are around black men. Another reason comes in the form of how in which you'll get some of them who like us for how embracive we are of them and how they love them unconditionally, due to the fact that, again from their personal experience, they felt more appreciated, accepted and loved when being around black men. There are a lot of reasons to why some white women are attracted to black men, it just depends on each and every individual white woman experience because every one of them will be different.
Next, let’s get to the black man that likes, dates or has a preference for the white woman. Now, with this, I’m going to speak with a sense of remorse, confession, honesty and integrity, based off of the fact that even though I am a black man myself that has a personal preference for dating outside my race, I just have to show humility before black women and tell them the truth and take accountability and responsibility on behalf of some of us brothers, even though some people could disagree with that and that’s fine. With black men who like, have a preference for or date white women, on the terms of the reasons why, again, that's a very broad question to answer as well, on the terms of the fact that every black man who likes or has a personal preference for white women. The arguably most common reason that you’ll hear from black men themselves why we prefer to date or be in relationships with white women is the fact that they are more humble, submissive and laid back but other than that, every black man who are likes or has a preference for white women is different.
When it comes to the reasons, one reason comes in the form of how you'll get some of us who like them because they generally and honestly feel as if white women are more physically attractive than black women on the terms of physical features or physical appearance, with that being the reason of why some you’ll hear some black women call, perceive and label us self-haters for. Another reason comes in the form of how in which you'll get some of us who like them due to how supportive, loving, accepting, or appreciative they are or can be. Another reason comes in the form of how in which you'll get some of us who like them for how we feel as if we get better treatment and respect of them in general compared to black women, even though if you were to be honest, some of us black men do play a role in that based off the way we do treat our black sisters at times. Another reason comes in the form of how in which you'll get some of us who like them for how easy it is to build or friendship it is with them or how friendly they are or can be. Another reason comes in the form of how in which you'll get some of us who like them for how enjoyable or fun they are to be around. Another reason comes in the form of how in which you'll get some of us who like them for how open-minded they are they are or can be. Another reason comes in the form of where in which you'll get some of us who like them for how they can be or feel as if they can be very easy on the terms of getting in their parents, opening up their legs or to have sex with, in which, if I were to personally honest and real, is a very bad reason with no meaning or intention of insulting disrespecting the white women that are reading this article.
Again, just like with white women who like black men, every black man who likes, dates or has a preference for white women is different. However, speaking on my behalf in this situation for me personally, the think that sticks me out the most them or attracts is how supportive and appreciative they can be or how loving and non-judgemental they can be, from personal experience, even though there are white women out there can be judgmental too, and even though that is a lot of times, a personality and character thing, coincidentally but yet unsurprisingly, they haven’t been as open as black women are, from the ones I’ve met and dealt in my years of life. Also, even though, I’m going to dispute that it is the case of where in which there are black women out there that are not only submissive, as some black men claim that black women are lacking in being, but also there are black women that are very supportive, appreciative, loving and accepting of a person’s issues, especially a black man’s issues, with knowing what we go through in this society that we live in on the terms of oppression, at the same and mutual time, it just hasn’t been my experience. Plain and simple as.
Now, let’s get into the white man and his attraction to the black women. Now, speaking from personal observation more rather than statistics or studies, knowing that on the terms of the population of interracial couples or when it comes to the interracial dating world, there aren’t that many cases of where you see white men with black women or where you don’t see white men and black women as couples, even though some people could agree to disagree with that, when it comes to the terms of walking down the street and seeing a white man with holding hands with a black woman, the predicted or expected reason more rather than stereotypical reason of why some white men go out and date black women is, in similar fashion with white women when it comes to black men, is due to sexual motive or sexual intent of getting in their pants, trying to open up their legs or just to have sex with. Now, even though that is true in some cases, on the terms of the fact that, yes, you might get some white men who do that and besides that, even when you look at it from a history standpoint, white men, not all but the ones that it applies to, have a history of doing that with black women, other than that, you will get some decent, acceptable and mature enough reasons as to why some of them say that they prefer to date black women.
On the terms of the reasons, some of them like them for the strong-willed, assertive and bold character that some black women show, demonstrate and possess and some of them describe in which is something that some, if not a lot of black women put emphasis on more so when it comes to being "strong and independent" in which is the motto or "one-liner" that some of them use when it comes to indulging themselves with pride or self-obsession, when it comes to trying to be-little people, us black men more in particular, or when it comes to trying to prove a point, in which is a little bit of an epidemic or common thing in the black female community, more in particular with black women in the United States of America. Some of them like them because they generally and honestly do find black women attractive, dark-skinned black women or black women of very dark skin complexion especially and more in particular, and knowing that with this society that we live in, that’s not a common preference or a common thing to admit, on the terms of the fact that black women usually in a lot of cases are viewed as being unattractive or the least attractive race of women in this society.
Finally, let’s get to the black woman and her attraction to the white man. When it comes to black women who like, date or have a preference for white men, one expected or predicted reason that some of us black men or black people in general as of that matter say, with some black women actually confirming this as their reason, is based on the fact that they are more successful or stable on the terms of finances and wealth then black men, on average, with that tying more so with the black women in the African-American community who date white. Another expected or predicted reason is that some black women see them as being more loving, accepting or get treated better by them more rather than black men, similar to what I mentioned before on the terms of how us black men treat our black sisters. Another reason come in the form of white seeing the beauty in them on the terms of their physical outlook or physical appearance, and knowing that we live in a society to where in which black women in a lot of cases aren't really seen as being the standard of beauty, especially dark-skinned women or black women of dark-skinned complexion, it's rare for men like that to come across, even within their own men, meaning that even some of us black men don't see the beauty in them, but yet some white men do.